5 things to remember when shopping with a defined budget and limited time…

I recently heard from a FB friend regarding planning a purposeful shopping trip. This friend mentioned that they have a specific budget and only a couple of hours to use spending it. I offered the following tips to create a successful shopping experience!

1.     Define your purpose for shopping. What do you hope to purchase? When you have focus before taking action, you are more likely to be successful. Create a list of items that you need and list of wants. Once you find your needs, you can then move on to your wants (time permitting).

2.     Quickly assess the stores near you. If your budget is $200 and your local stores have prices which begin at $75 per item; this is probably not the store for you given your budget. When assessing, also make sure the store carries the type of clothing you need.  Do not go to the hot trendy spot if you need foundation/staple pieces for your wardrobe.

3.     Try to determine the styles and colors that are most flattering for your shape prior to shopping. This is HUGE time saver. You should style try things when shopping to confirm a good fit. Knowing what looks good on you, will reduce the number of things to try and reduce the level of frustration resulting from trying on things that are not right for your shape.

4.    Remember quality is most important. Just because something is on sale does not mean it is a must buy piece. You want items that fit, are flattering and made to be worn several times.  If you have to pay an extra few dollars to achieve these things, it is okay. You will recoup your investment with the number of times you are able to wear the clothing.

5.     If you can, take an honest friend…lol. Seriously, take someone with you who will honestly tell you when something looks fabulous or not.

SLL,
Jantina

Personal Style at Work

Oh the joys of balancing personal style with the constraints of a conservative work environment.  Ok, you are right… this sounds like a personal problem. It is… and one I believe I share with many…lol. So, I am going to write about it.

Why should we have to check our style at the door when coming to work? In all honesty, I agree that work appropriate clothes should be worn BUT I wish infusing color and a little drama with the sometimes boring and lifeless hues of navy blue, grey, brown, tan and black would be more accepted.

Long story short, don’t commit career suicide or make a spectacle of yourself. Rather start with your basics and find one lively accessory that best presents your personal style and work it! This is also a great way to spice up your commonly worn business casual attire. Pick one accessory that is within your budget and add it your ensemble.

I am a shoe nut and I typically add a pair of dramatic shoes to my ensemble. You can do the same thing with scarves, earrings, necklaces, rings, etc. For instance earrings are easy on the budget and great on the eye.  They will instantly bring focus to your face and they can be worn with a variety of outfits.  Scarves are another great option for many of the same reasons.

Most importantly wear something that compliments your style and that is comfortable. I always say confidence is the best accessory! Be true to you…;-).

Stop Look and Love…,

Jantina

What should I wear if I have a pear shape?

What should I wear if I have a pear shape?

Okay so let’s start with the basics. What is a pear shape or also know as a triangle shape. Women with a pear/triangle shape usually have larger hip measurements when compared to their waist and chest. 



Here are a couple of well known celebrities who have a pear shape.

If you have this curvy and vivacious shape, you should consider the following tips and items.

1.  Draw the eye upward by wearing noticeable jewelry and girly/romantic pieces. Try statement necklaces, ruffles and scarves.

2.   Wear solids and darker colors on the bottom half. Try boot cut or wider leg pants. This will help balance your silhouette and create a longer leaner bottom half.

3.   Consider a line skirts and dresses. Pencil and biased cut skirts can create unwanted attention.

4.   Stay away from boxy clothing as this will add weight to your figure and hide your curves.

5.   Consider wearing heels to add length and height.

6.   Don’t be afraid of tops which accent your small waist.

7.   Most importantly have your clothes tailored to fit your curves.

Finally...stop, look, love and celebrate your curves!

Jantina

Flattering Styles for Full Figured Women...Talk to Me Tues. Question Answered!

What are flattering styles and casual styles for plus size women …
Okay, you might not like my answer to this one but it is the truth….IT DEPENDS…seriously. Flattering styles are very dependent on a person’s body shape. This is why I say it depends. So below are 5 general and sincere tips from styling experiences.

1.Discover your body shape and understand the type of clothes and accessories that flatter your shape. There are 6 different shapes (triangle, inverted triangle, rectangle, hourglass, diamond and rounded). Once you know your shape, flattering it is easy!

2.Do not focus on the size of clothing but rather the fit and comfort (not too loose or tight). Try on your clothing when shopping. OR take your items home and try them on only if you will take them back if they are not the right fit for you. Getting dressed in the morning is SO much easier and more enjoyable when you are able to choose from clothing that fits and is flattering.

3.Be selective with the fabrics you choose. Heavier fabrics tend to add weight (chunky sweaters, sweats, etc..). Do not be afraid to wear fabrics which rest against your curves. You are getting dressed not hiding out for the day! Let the world know that you are a woman and can embrace your curves like the rest!

4.Choose colors and patterns wisely. Dark colors tend to slim and light colors may emphasize or exaggerate. Monochromatic combos with a pop of color are very sleek and chic. Prints worn strategically can highlight your assets and distract from personal challenges.

5.ACCESSORIZE! Accessories are your styling “ bff”. A belt placed in the right area highlights your smaller waist line. A necklace or a pair of impressive earrings will bring attention to your face and away from challenging areas. Let’s not forget shoes. A pair of heels always lengthens you by adding height.

Okay, so now you have all of these words and are probably wondering what this looks like on a real person. Check it out below.

Before I leave… please remember regardless of your size and/style…remember to STOP (spend a little me time), LOOK (take inventory of you) and LOVE YOU (embrace your authentic self). Self acceptance and love is the most beautiful style any woman can ever wear and pass on!!!!

SLL,
Jantina

Welcome!

Welcome to my fashion and style world! Enter with the understanding that fashion and style are personal and a way of self expression.  There is no one right way to express yourself. So take what you find here as purely my thoughts and opinions.  My goal is to help others reach a greater level of self acceptance and love regardless of their budget, shape, style, etc.

There are so many blogs that promote designer this and expensive that to look good. I must say that I LOVE this stuff too but can’t always afford it.  And truthfully speaking, living beyond one’s means is never cute.  So, if you are like me or just like something different… join me! Let me show you how I can work with what’s in your closet, your local department store and a few fabulous boutiques (vintage, consignment, independent) to create a look worthy of the red carpet! Are you ready….?

Oh… the only rule that I have is once you decide to join me, know that I value your company. I will share my loves, thoughts and opinions. But most importantly, I want to hear from you!  And one more thing…. this is not an exclusive venture SO… tell your friends and encourage them to journey with us!

Stop, Look and Love…,

Jantina